If you’d have asked me that question six years ago my answer would have been the standardized one, because it was an answer that had been etched into my mind since I was young.

By Susana Evelyn Ramirez

To be a good Cuban-American I had to

  • Vehemently hate the Cuban government and revolution
  • Oppose anything that remotely resembles communism or socialism
  • and I had to thoroughly support the Embargo on Cuba

Those were the three basic pillars for being a good Cuban-American, and they were not optional. They still aren’t. At least, that’s what the loud Cuban-American voices in Miami and South Florida want you and me to believe.

I was born in Cuba a few years before their “periodo especial,” which lasted from about 1991-2000. Essentially, it was an economic crisis which was highlighted by extreme reductions of already rationed foods and severe energy shortages (apagones). For the duration of my childhood and young adult life, I was taught that these burdens that Cuba felt were the sole fault of Castro and his government. That it was communism’s fault, and that Che was the main architect of Cuba’s torture. As a result, I grew up the way most Cubans who live in the USA do; with a severe mistrust of anything socialist/communist, fully believing that the embargo was choking the Cuban government, and having the lowest possible opinion of Castro and Che.

When I started college, I got involved in activism, and worked very closely with right wing ideological organizations. Although at the time, I didn’t realize it was right wing, I just felt that it was the only way to think and act as a Cuban. I was taught a lot by them, and of course, deep within all of those lessons were the continued lessons on hatred of communism/socialism, Castro and co., and to support the embargo. This went on for many years, and I eventually became President of a local university aligned organization. One day, I had a conversation with someone who had also been heavily involved with dissident work. We began discussing trips to Cuba; he’d said it would be his 5th trip over to the island, and I mentioned I hadn’t been back since I left back in 1994. He questioned why.

I began listing all of the reasons that had been so eloquently placed into my psyche for the past 20 years; traveling to Cuba was dangerous, it only benefited the Cuban government, my money would never reach the people of Cuba, I would be black listed here in the USA because I would be seen as a communist sympathiser, and so forth.

He looked me right in the eyes and said all of the reasons I’d mentioned were American propaganda, and served no other purpose than to instill fear into people who would otherwise see a situation for what it truly was – cruel and unusual. A situation that only hurt the people of Cuba. A situation that was orchestrated by the American government under the guise of hurting the Cuban government, but the real objective was to obtain control of the small sovereign nation.

Over the last five years or so, I have done a lot of unlearning, and while I still feel very strongly about the Cuban government and their crimes towards the Cuban people who oppose them, I do not believe the issue of Cuba is as black and white as the loud voices in South Florida want you and me to believe. The one thing, however, that is very black and white is that the embargo does nothing but hurt the people of Cuba. The embargo does nothing else but cut off an already limited supply of items, medicines, and tools that the Cuban people need to survive.

If you ask me now what it means to be a good Cuban-American, my answer is simple, yet in true Cuban fashion also very complex. Being a good Cuban-American means to support the people, and to fight for what’s right and just for them, not for the government; American or Cuban. Being a good Cuban-American means to call for an end to the decades long embargo that has done nothing but strangle an already struggling country. Being a good Cuban-American means recognizing that NO government is without flaw, but understanding that at times when you are pushed into a corner, there are only a handful of ways to stay alive.

For me, being a good Cuban-American means stopping the embargo. 
Stop suffocating my people.
Stop oppressing my people, and stop using their suffering as the excuse to blame another government.
Not in my name.

End the embargo. Help the Cuban people. If this calls to you, please join Cuban Americans for Cuba. We have poured our hearts into an open letter against the current U.S. policies towards Cuba (CubanAmericansForCuba.Org/Letter), which is a call to our fellow Cubans to stand with us and show the world who we truly are and what we truly stand for.

Our movement is a blend of members across the United States who don’t all think alike, but who share one unshakeable conviction: that the future of Cuba belongs to the Cuban people, and to them alone, free from American interference and manipulation.

Susana Evelyn Ramirez, Executive Director, Save The Sharks